A Guide On How To Approach Beautiful Women
There are billions of people on the planet walking around, going about their days and generally doing the things that people who are alive do. Out of those billion, half of them are women – beautiful women who enjoy and relish good flirtatious interactions.There’s a misconception floating around, perpetuated by society that beautiful women don’t like getting approached by men. And that’s a falsehood – they like being approached by men. But they only like it when you approach them correctly — if you try to seduce them on a unicycle while hooting and hollering at them– it’s most likely not happening. If you know the right way to go about it, it’s on. Here are some quick tips to remember.
Just Go Out and Do It
Vague advice, yes. But get motivated. People don’t make changes in their lives unless they’re highly motivated. You don’t get that way by sitting in your house, making vague and hollow promises about altering your life. That’s how you get Cheetos dust on your clothes. Chances are, you’ve read a lot of articles on the internet. A lot of articles about picking up beautiful women. But unless you have the motivation to actually put those concepts into practice, you’re wasting a lot of time not implementing.You’re either doing it, or you’re not. Put down your computer. If you have a Dating  for Dummy’s, throw it out the window and collect it after last call. Make a schedule about going out and doing it every day – consistency is your friend. The people who get the best at this get that way because they operate very consistently – gaming is part of their life. It’s programmed in them. Psyche yourself up and attack.
Find Areas With High Pedestrian Traffic
Or if you’re going out at night, clubs that are bumping. It’s good to approach a few women, but it’s much better to approach dozens of them. There are dozens of women out there, waiting for you to approach them. They’re in book stores, tourist destinations, shopping centers, spas, and on the street. Find where they are – every city has a spot for it. Find out what clubs are good on which nights, and go. If you don’t know where to look, you’ll never find what you’re looking for.
Open Conversations Immediately
As soon as you walk into any venue start approaching women and men by opening conversations. If you’re in a casual, day-to-day environment such as a coffeeshop or bookstore, ask a simple question like if they recommend something for you to orderor if they have a suggestion for a new item. When greeted and approached warmly people are happy with the approach as it is a nice change in their mundane routine. If you’re having a night out don’t wait around for someone to talk to you or you might end up waiting through the entire evening. A casual greeting to a group of people near you is usually all you need to get the ball rolling and you will be surprised how open they are to meeting others. A lot of times, that serious man or woman is just waiting for someone else to engage them, just like you were.
Always Sort Out Your Logistics
Fixing your logistics means aligning the different variables you find in particular social situations. You’re in a coffee shop, and see a beautiful woman who is seated. What do you do? You could take a seat next to her, quickly greet her, then get coffee, do some non-verbal communication from across the shop like making eye contact and smiling – but you’re able to do that because she’s seated. Talking louder in noisy venues, being able to speak to them comfortably, intercepting street traffic because you’re able to discern walking patterns – it’s just as important to take these things into account as basic conversation skills and good openers. Situations dictate interactions just as much as the content does. So account for them, and try to control them.
Join a Group
It always pays to hit it off with a group, whether at a club you’ve never been to or a ta 3-day seminar for your work. This is what social situations are all about—creating relationships. And once you’re part of a group, you ARE the party rather than another individual standing on the outside looking in. From there, you’ve got a lot more leverage in the room. Taking a class doing something you enjoy, such as dance, cooking, yoga, or kick boxing will also help to meet others. Being in the class as a part of the group will be a natural ice breaker and conversation will be able to flow naturally. Once things are going well you can then suggest meeting outside of the class to keep the interaction and conversation going. The most important thing to keep in mind is that you’re completely capable of picking up any woman that you see on the street – provided you KNOW that you are and you take the steps to go for it. That extra push and internal frame setting will be invaluable.
Great article! I love the section on “Sorting Out Your Logistics.” It definitely makes sense instead of just diving in and hoping for the best. Sometimes just planning out a few extra steps makes all the difference.
They will only talk to you if you are attractive.
Exactly. Girls like the one pictured won’t give you the time of day if you don’t look like Brad Pitt, regardless of your personality and how outgoing and confident you are.
You're just laying down a blanket statement that all girls operate on tiers of how attractive they are. Who's to say that these gorgeous girls don't have awesome personalities as well?
Not all women act the same, and they are definitely all entitled to like different things about the opposite sex.
That's not true! I consider myself to be a pretty attractive male, but I'm overweight and I talk to outrageously hot women all the time.
You'd be surprised at the reaction of these gorgeous females if you just take your time to approach them with confidence. I see some of the ugliest guys with the hottest girls and women, how do you think they got there? It's all about the chemistry, and you are in control of that since chemistry is a science and provable.
Don't settle! Don't settle! Don't settle! Get what you want or else you're going to be miserable!
I wish I could agree, but you’re wrong. The only thing that brought me to this article was a link through a another site. The link featured the young woman in the first photo, who I immediately recognized. Her name is Jen, she lives (or lived) in downtown Sacramento, and although I doubt that’s her bedroom, it’s definitely her Angry Samoans t-shirt. She studies political science at Sac State, works at a coffee shop, and, oh yeah, I slept with her (so did several of my friends throughout the years). Wish I could say the same about the other two women on here, as they’re gorgeous.
If you aren't compatible – meaning if you don't have similar life interests, hobbies, philosophies, etc. – then you are just playing games and the relationship won't last long. Look for people with similar interests, not just "hotties"
Good lord. I’m a woman, and you’ve gotten a few things wrong.
“There are billions of people on the planet walking around, going about their days and generally doing the things that people who are alive do. Out of those billion, half of them are women – beautiful women who enjoy and relish good flirtatious interactions.”
Approximately half are women, but ONLY half of those are above-average looking, by definition. Only 10% total, probably, are “beautiful.” So, you’re aiming to impress 10% of 50%, or 5% of the population. Yes, you are setting your sights on the 5% BEST LOOKING of ALL HUMANS.
That’s your problem right the f*ck there.
It’s simple: are you in the top 5% Best Looking of All Male Humans? Or do you have a special skill that will enhance you enough to make you competitive with that 5%? If the answer to both is no, then you need to relax and join the rest of us normal people in the world of “you’re not everything I wanted, but you love me, which is more than anyone else has ever done, so let’s get married bitch.”
Men are stupid. Young men especially.
They want the VISUAL. Well, the visual is so rare that those who have it charge for it. See porn or high-priced escorts. As guys get older, they realize that less-beautiful girls (and not-girls) will do MUCH more interesting things for free. You think a beautiful girl is gonna suck your dick AND make you a sandwich unless you have a million dollars you are ACTIVELY spending on her? No. She’s not gonna.
But an average-looking girl will do all of it, plus your family will like her when you bring her to meet them. And when it’s time to f*ck? Turn out the lights, they all look the f*cking same. Average girls will let you do MORE anyway. Win win, motherf*cker.
It’s simple: go for someone similar to you. Only rich good men get young hottie girls for long. Go with someone who gets you. Sure, you COULD nail that porn star, why not? You can fap to that memory for 20 years. But at the end, will you have a nice wife who gets you, or will you be 40 years old and still fapping to THAT ONE TIME.
Accept it, you have a league. Stick to it if you want to be happy.
Who's the girl in the topnpic with the bangs?
I'm 18 and I whole heartedly believe that I can get any girl that I want (with amazing results). It's all about you – approaching women is the easiest part of the whole thing. If you can't hold an interesting and intelligent conversation then the approach is worth nothing. I recommend to anyone struggling with women to improve themselves and not employ any tactics on getting women. Do things that you are scared of, always try to expand your boundaries. Be well-informed about the world around you, have interests and passions. It's really not difficult.